Meet Jessica
“Seeing how they grow as people, becoming more of who they are and comfortable in themselves, is just amazing.”
When Jessica first joined COVEY four years ago, she didn’t know just how much joy and connection the experience would bring her.
As a group befriender, she’s been part of many different groups over the years, supporting children and young people of all ages. Even when life got busy during college and university, Jessica’s commitment to COVEY never wavered. “There was some time spent away, but I was eager to come back and continue.”
For Jessica, some of the fondest memories come from COVEY’s summer outings.
“Summer outings are always the best memories. Seeing the young people out with the normal group environment and watching them explore new places is just so rewarding.”
Jessica reflected on some of the challenges she’s faced as a volunteer.
“Seeing children struggle is a weakness of mine. They often start the group as very quiet people and sometime they are lacking in confidence, but as the sessions continue you can see them change, and it shows how much of an impact you make on their lives.”
It’s clear that for Jessica, befriending is about more than showing up, it’s about building trust, offering empathy, and helping young people see their own potential. Over time, she’s learned lessons not just about supporting others, but about herself too.
“If I could go back, I’d tell myself there’s no need to be quiet and let your anxiety take over. The young people can always tell, and it can make them anxious too.”
What keeps Jessica coming back, year after year, is the deep connection formed with the young people she supports.
“Achieving a therapeutic relationship with them and being that person they can come to with their worries is the most rewarding part. Seeing how they grow as people, becoming more of who they are and comfortable in themselves, is just amazing.”
After four years of volunteering, Jessica continues to bring patience, and understanding to every group she supports. Her story is a reminder that small acts of kindness and care can make a big difference in helping young people feel seen, valued, and capable of becoming their truest selves.